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ADHD, Shame, and Flooding: Why Conflict Feels So Hard to Navigate

In ADHD relationships, conflict can feel overwhelming fast. Flooding, shame, and rejection sensitivity often drive disconnection before either partner knows what hit them. This post explores what’s really happening in those moments—and how to start finding your way back to connection.

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Kim Vervain Kim Vervain

What Makes a Relationship Neurodivergent-Affirming?

What does it actually mean to have a neurodivergent-affirming relationship? Whether you’re ADHD, AuDHD, or partnered with someone who is, this post explores how to create connection without shame or misattunement.

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